Are really not that bad, I mean depending on who is conducting. My exs friend Tim of well, slept with him when we I was with my ex guy, which isn’t that specific, but have been letting him get me to entertain. It’s not that bad, he isn’t all controlling. Plus what haven’t I already done? Plus he gets my weird fetish about old fat guy sucking on me a bit. It is not that bad. Just sitting on someone’s lap for awhile. Although I do hope I get over it soon as it kind of sicks me out.